The Erotic Enchantress – In Love with the World – Ryan Couples Therapy Tacoma, WA

The Erotic Enchantress: In Love with the World

The Erotic Enchantress is in love with the world. All of life inspires her. All of life teaches her. All of life has value to her. All of life informs her comings and goings.

On June 2, 2019, and offered an intriguing, inspiring and informative course on the archetype of the Erotic Enchantress.

The two hours served to awaken the Erotic Enchantress within. An awakening that taught the workshop participants how to access her, befriend her, and integrate her into all aspects of their life, body, and heart, and their relationships.

It was a special time for women to get to know the Erotic Enchantress or to re-connect with her once again.

So,  Who is the Erotic Enchantress?

The Erotic Enchantress is in love with the world.

She celebrates birth. Fearlessly embraces death. And welcomes and trusts in re-birth.

Her wisdom and attunement to the life force allow her to see in the dark. She is comfortable in both the light and the shadows.

She has perfectly integrated the universal gifts of connection, vulnerability, empowerment, authenticity, creativity, playfulness, pleasure, awareness, joy, and love. She uses these gifts to live a life that radiantly and exuberantly thrives.

She IS the vessel for Erotic Energy. Within this vessel is the balanced energy of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine. She knows balancing these energies helps her to actualize her full erotic power.

She allows nature to determine her days, her cycles, her moods.

Her spirit and energy are enlivened by the wind, the moon, the ocean tides, the change of seasons.

Fire is her conduit as is the fluidity of water.

She uses the energy of Mother Earth to guide and inform her own life/death/life cycle within herself.

She thrives in solitude. She seeks out community.

She lives in her body. Fully. Lovingly. Without shame. Without criticism.

She is connected to spirit. Without doubt. Without fear.

She shuns perfectionism. And thrives in the mess of the unknown, of change, of unpredictability.

She is completely aware that life is a complex web of joy and pain; grief and loss; happiness and sadness; fear and courage; anger and peace. She does not shy away from the challenges of these experiences but rather understands that allowing the full spectrum of emotion and experience enriches, emboldens and enhances her life. She knows all of this is essential for growth.

She loves herself. She loves others. She moves toward the things that bring a manifestation of her fullest potential, always.

She celebrates her evolving sexuality and knows how to use her body, her mind, her heart and her soul to express her sexual desires and her fantasies. She does not allow her sexuality to be restricted, categorized or defined.

She knows both the light and shadow side of sexuality. She is aware of the power of sexual energy and never uses it for ill or in harmful ways, only for good. She is the original author of full, enthusiastic consent.

She has no tolerance for disrespect, exploitation, abuse. She shudders and weeps when she sees dishonesty, deception, a lack of integrity.

She knows how to protect herself. She offers protection to those in need, as she whispers in their ears, words of encouragement. With gentleness or fierceness or both, she encourages others to move toward love and joy.

She is the still voice in the quiet places of our hearts and souls which says, “Love is this way.”

She drinks from the fountain of laughter, play and pleasure. She knows that without these things her own erotic energy will wither and die.

She wants to live in all of us. She knocks and asks to come in. Often her knocks go unrecognized. We move too fast, we are too busy. We are disconnected from the portals that lead us to her.

But, she never gives up. The opportunity to hear her, see her and feel her are ever-present, ever available.

All you have to do is say “YES”. No efforting, no requirements. Only “YES”.

Are you ready to get to know the Erotic Enchantress? Are you ready to respond when she knocks?

Are you ready to invite the Erotic Enchantress into your life? Your body? Your heart and soul? Your relationships?

Are you ready to ask her to teach you, guide, and inform you? Are you ready to reach your fullest, most alive, self?

The Erotic Enchantress certainly infuses our sexuality and our sexual relationships with passion, deep connection, playfulness, and joy. But this is only one area of her infusion.

If we allow her, she awakens us to feel all of our experiences, all of ourself, all of our connections to others, with an orgasmic energy that radiates throughout our bodies, our hearts and our souls.

This workshop is just the start

This introductory workshop was just the beginning of many more magical offerings to come from and Offerings to help women connect with their true erotic nature and fullest sexual potential.

And if you haven’t, please take a look at my Relationship Guide, join my email list, and you’ll be notified of new offerings to come.

And if you are wishing that you had the chance to be a part of our “Invoke Your Erotic Enchantress” workshop, YOU STILL CAN.

Simply visit to register for the recording of the class and to receive all the goodies that come with it!

And follow me on Instagram @ryancouplestherapy.

Peace in the journey,

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Jane Ryan

Jane Ryan, M.A., LMFT, is a Licensed Couples and Family Therapist with twenty years of clinical experience. She specializes in intimate relationships, sexual challenges, sacred sexuality, and helping clients embrace their true erotic nature. She supports women in discovering their most radiant, vibrant and powerful feminine essence.